بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيْم Salam Zulkaedah, My mistakes in this posting is of my own. Allah SWT is Perfection. I only have the best of intentions. The opinion put forth here is personal. All that are beneficial comes only from Allah SWT. SubhanAllah Walhamdulillah. One of the concepts which is a product of secularism is the 'misguided' concept of being realistic. it's my humble opinion. Why is that so? Isn't being realistic a good thing? Some may say, "sure. it's like being grounded to reality" then one might question, "what reality?" is "reality" is something perceivable and within our reach? within our control? i guess so. but are we sure that everything is within our control? how about Allah SWT? isn't God the Ultimate Reality? have we factored Allah SWT in the scheme ...